so I have already replaced my relay, and what happened this time isn't the same... I was driving with my lights on, turned on my brights for a little bit then when I turned them back off I lost my lows completely. tried manually turning the headlights on and nothing. luckily I was only a couple blocks from the house. I was able to turn my fogs on until I got home. I don't have my lows at all now, but I do have my brights... and fogs... any ideas/suggestions... I don't even know where to start.
If your fuses appear good to the eye, you'll want to check them electrically to make sure power is even reaching them to begin with. When you said you replaced the relay, did you have someone else do it? You can try swapping relay #46 (headlights) with #45 (cooling fan) briefly to rule out that your relay hasn't gone bad again. After you have your meter, you can test the relay's sockets to make sure power is reaching that as well.

